Once upon a time, I thought I had to “do” something to experience more ecstasy in my life — like see more sunsets, or meditate more or better to get “there.” As if ecstasy is something to achieve, like we often think of “achieving” orgasm. I also once thought I needed to make love in… [Read More…]
Posts Categorized: Spiritual Union
Wild-Haired Abandon
[Video Below] Most of us relish the idea of passionate, spontaneous lovemaking. The idea of total wild-haired abandon sounds thrilling, doesn’t it? — and simultaneously terrifying. Why? Because most of us fear losing control. Do I need to remind you that one reason orgasm is so sought after is BECAUSE we lose control? Orgasm takes… [Read More…]
Make Love, Not War [With Yourself or a Partner]
The energy of these times is stirring up generalized anxiety in many people. Regardless of your political views and values, the external situation brought home daily with the media blasting reports of chaos and violence, threats to personal health and safety, and economic uncertainty can evoke internal resonance from the past. Be aware that if… [Read More…]
Find Your Edge – That’s Where Transformation Happens!
The power of sex is that it can provide even more than physical satisfaction and emotional and spiritual fulfillment (all extremely high value). Our sexuality also has vast potential to be a mechanism for expansion and transformation. This tip applies to our sexual, physical, emotional and spiritual edges. It applies to situations when you are… [Read More…]
What do you practice in your love life?
A friend showed me this compelling 2-minute video of this lovely young boy asking a very profound and practical question. The video is not about sex; it’s about all of life – but I’ll show you how it applies to your sex life here too. Another perspective on this wisdom is that others in our… [Read More…]