Posts Categorized: Spiritual Union

What do you practice in your love life?

A friend showed me this compelling 2-minute video of this lovely young boy asking a very profound and practical question. The video is not about sex; it’s about all of life – but I’ll show you how it applies to your sex life here too. Another perspective on this wisdom is that others in our… [Read More…]

Find Your Edge – That’s Where Transformation Happens!

The power of sex is that it can provide even more than physical satisfaction and emotional and spiritual fulfillment (all extremely high value). Our sexuality also has vast potential to be a mechanism for expansion and transformation. This tip applies to our sexual, physical, emotional and spiritual edges. It applies to situations when you are… [Read More…]

Here’s Where to Find Ecstasy

“The gap between your goal and where you are now can hinder you,” my instructor said during yoga last night. She was encouraging us to relax into a pose rather than force it. She went on to say that there is no feedback in that gap; the only feedback is in the present. This, of… [Read More…]

Wild-Haired Abandon

[Video Below] Most of us relish the idea of passionate, spontaneous lovemaking. The idea of total wild-haired abandon sounds thrilling, doesn’t it? — and simultaneously terrifying. Why? Because most of us fear losing control. Do I need to remind you that one reason orgasm is so sought after is BECAUSE we lose control? Orgasm takes… [Read More…]

LOVE TIP: Valentine’s Day SUCKS, IF…

…we tell ourselves stories about what happens (or doesn’t happen) means …and those stories suck. Expectations run high, and so does disappointment. The whole idea of Valentine’s Day is that we should feel loving and loved and happy, right? Well, true happiness lies in Loving What Is, as the title of Byron Katie’s book so… [Read More…]