[Video Below] Most of us relish the idea of passionate, spontaneous lovemaking. The idea of total wild-haired abandon sounds thrilling, doesn’t it? — and simultaneously terrifying. Why? Because most of us fear losing control. Do I need to remind you that one reason orgasm is so sought after is BECAUSE we lose control? Orgasm takes… [Read More…]
Posts Categorized: Emotional Intimacy
EXPAND YOUR CAPACITY FOR PLEASURE
One morning while we were making love, I hit upon something I never knew existed… I bumped up against my pleasure threshold! Whoa! Too intense! I contracted and backed off, which I’m sure I’ve done before — unconsciously. The difference this time was I could see it. I couldn’t quite verbalize it, but my very intuitive… [Read More…]
Reconnect with Your Body and Your Desire for Better Sex
As we age or get busy with the functional and intellectual aspects of life, we may lose touch with our sensuality and desire. To enhance your sex life, it’s important to reconnect with your body and your desire. Based on my surveys over the years and direct conversations with both men and women, a common… [Read More…]
Consider Genital Reflexology – Part 2 of 2
In Part 1 on this topic, I described genital reflexology. This information has several implications for lovemaking, alone or with a lover. Felice Dunas, Ph.D., author of Passion Play, is an acupuncturist and expert on Chinese medicine and the health benefits of erotic love. In her book, she discusses these reflexology points in detail. Dunas… [Read More…]
Consider Genital Reflexology – Part 1 of 2
You’ve probably heard of foot reflexology, where massaging various parts of the feet energetically stimulates or relaxes the various organs of the body reflected in those parts. Well, have you ever heard of genital reflexology? According to traditional Chinese medicine, there are specific areas of and around the penis and vagina that correspond with the… [Read More…]