Posts Categorized: Emotional Intimacy

Get More Sex When You Clear Up This Common Misunderstanding

Men and women typically have different interpretations of the response, “I don’t know,” when they ask their partners if they want to have sex. Your partner can mean something totally different than you think! And this can lead to a missed opportunity for lovemaking. In this tip I explain how to overcome this problem for… [Read More…]

Beware the Penetration Imperative (with video)

Have you fallen into this rut, which so many couples in long-term relationships fall into? It’s when one or both of you don’t move very far beyond “interest” to real desire, much less passion and high arousal, before having sex. When was the last time you did something together — anything! …just for the delicious… [Read More…]

Here’s Where to Find Ecstasy

“The gap between your goal and where you are now can hinder you,” my instructor said during yoga class. She was encouraging us to relax into a pose rather than force it. She went on to say that there is no feedback in that gap; the only feedback is in the present. This, of course,… [Read More…]

EXPAND YOUR CAPACITY FOR PLEASURE

One morning while we were making love, I hit upon something I never knew existed… I bumped up against my pleasure threshold! Whoa! Too intense! I contracted and backed off, which I’m sure I’ve done before — unconsciously. The difference this time was I could see it. I couldn’t quite verbalize it, but my very intuitive… [Read More…]