Your hands and/or a man’s penis can be instruments for sexual healing. I’m going to discuss a couple of easy ways to heal yourself or your partner with sexual energy.
One method helps a woman’s vagina become more sexually responsive.
As you’ve undoubtedly noticed, sexual activity generates a lot of energy. That’s one thing that makes it so fun, right?
Well, that sexual energy is also creative energy – it’s the primary creative force of the universe, bringing consciousness into the manifest realm. Creative energy is also regenerative energy, and with a little awareness, you can actually tap into this powerful force and channel it for healing.
Energy flows where attention goes. So you can direct your energy for healing with attention and intention, even if you are not adept at perceiving it.
Doing this can also amplify emotional intimacy.
Here are three ways to heal with your sexual energy:
Once you’re aware of a lot of energy being generated while making love, alone or with a partner (for most people, this will be most obvious in the pelvic region), imagine the energy moving up to your heart. From here you can direct the healing energy anywhere in your body.
1. With your hands:
Simply place your hand on the area in need and imagine the energy flowing to it from your heart down your arm through your hand. For example, just imagine it flowing from your heart up to a sore shoulder, into a tender belly, or down to a problem knee.
You can also direct it with intent from your heart down your arms to your hands, and then to a specific area of your own or your partner’s body.
2. With penis-vagina contact:
Often times during intercourse, a woman may feel a little or a lot of discomfort (or even sharp pain) when her partner’s penis hits a particular spot in her vagina. The “natural” response is to pull back and shift to protect it from happening again.
Did you know this is a golden opportunity to heal a woman’s vagina and help it relax and open to more pleasure and sexual responsiveness?
Here’s what to do. (I recommend discussing this with your partner beforehand in a non-sexual situation.)
A. For the woman: When your partner’s penis touches a place in your vagina that hurts, stop and ask him to pause. You might say something like “wait,” or “pause please,” or “healing time.”
B. For the man: Imagine your sexual love energy flowing from your heart, down your torso into your penis and sending it into the painful spot in your partner’s vagina like a glowing magic wand. Just be still while you send focused love energy into that spot with healing intent.
C. For the woman: Breathe into the painful spot while you receive the love energy from your partner, and let the spot speak to you in whatever way it does.
You may sense a message as to what is being released and healed. You might just feel a “thank you” from that spot for being recognized and loved. Once you feel complete, just thank your partner, or smile at him and signal that you’re ready to resume movement.
This can also be done with anal sex and with hand-to-vagina penetration.
3. With heart-to-heart contact:
Another option is to allow this healing energy to flow directly from your heart into your lover’s heart during physical heart-to-heart contact, either facing each other or while lying “spoon style.”
Simply envision your sexual love energy flowing into your partner’s heart. Then trust that it will flow to wherever the body’s intelligence knows it’s needed most.
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