One morning while we were making love, I hit upon something I never knew existed… I bumped up against my pleasure threshold! Whoa! Too intense! I contracted and backed off, which I’m sure I’ve done before — unconsciously. The difference that this time was I could see it. I couldn’t quite verbalize it, but my very… [Read More…]

What do you practice in your love life?

A friend showed me this compelling 2-minute video of this lovely young boy asking a very profound and practical question. The video is not about sex; it’s about all of life – but I’ll show you how it applies to your sex life here too. Another perspective on this wisdom is that others in our… [Read More…]

Find Your Edge – That’s Where Transformation Happens!

The power of sex is that it can provide even more than physical satisfaction and emotional and spiritual fulfillment (all extremely high value). Our sexuality also has vast potential to be a mechanism for expansion and transformation. This tip applies to our sexual, physical, emotional and spiritual edges. It applies to situations when you are… [Read More…]

Build a Sexual Bonfire

How to Build and Circulate Sexual Energy for the Most Pleasurable and Profound Lovemaking Experiences  [Whatever you’re celebrating at this time of year, I wish you warmth, joy, sensuality, playfulness and love overflowing.] Imagine building a bonfire. You can’t get the biggest, hottest fire by putting a match to a log; you need kindling to… [Read More…]