No matter how great your sex is, even if you have it “dialed in” with your partner, your brain and body become somewhat immune to pleasure when it’s delivered in the same way every time (think “white noise”). We all need variety to keep sex fresh and exciting. Changing up your thrusting patterns is a… [Read More…]
Don’t rely on the same old formula if you want to keep your partner’s interest in bed – and avoid unconscious resentment. It’s so easy to get into sexual ruts. And one rut that can easily go unnoticed is thrusting patterns during intercourse. The same ol’, same ol’ can get boring. And women, especially, need… [Read More…]
If your partner is the opposite gender, don’t assume they want to be touched the same way you do. Have you ever wanted your partner to touch you differently? Perhaps with a lighter or firmer hand, but they just didn’t “get” it? Maybe you responded by caressing him or her with the kind of touch… [Read More…]
The energy of these times is stirring up generalized anxiety in many people. Regardless of your political views and values, the external situation brought home daily with reports of violence, threats to personal identity and privacy, terrorism, and economic uncertainty can evoke internal resonance from the past. Be aware that if you are feeling insecure,… [Read More…]
In this Love Tip, I share two tips for women to help their male partner last longer and experience full-body orgasms — so she has time to explore and enjoy her own sexual response. I also discuss how men and women typically experience orgasm differently.