It’s easy to get caught up thinking about how we’d like our current partner to change or what the perfect partner would be like. The truth is, what we long for in relationship is a clue to what we need to cultivate in ourselves in order to get what we want. Let me explain. And… [Read More…]
Posts Categorized: Perspectives
Got Tantric Twitches? (Includes video demo!)
Do you or your lover ever get “tantric twitches” or a sort of “turned on Tourettes” when you’re aroused? They’re rather jerky, almost spastic movements known as “kriyas.” Sounds weird, I know. But it actually feels yummy, as long as it’s not freaking out your partner, if you’re with one. (This video from the CBS… [Read More…]
What do you practice in your love life?
A friend showed me this compelling 2-minute video of this lovely young boy asking a very profound and practical question. The video is not about sex; it’s about all of life – but I’ll show you how it applies to your sex life here too. Another perspective on this wisdom is that others in our… [Read More…]
Make Love, Not War [With Yourself or a Partner]
Today, December 21st, is the winter solstice, officially at 11:19pm (EST). In the northern hemisphere, it’s the shortest day and longest night of the year. For millennia, humans have celebrated the “return of the light,” as the days now get gradually longer. This is also a time of much holiday celebrating often focused on light…. [Read More…]
How to Improve Your Sex Life with Gratitude [Brain Science]
Science has now proven how gratitude can improve your love life (including your sex life). I know, the connection may seem a little murky or like a big leap, but it’s actually very clear and direct. If you’ll stick with me, I’ll connect the dots… First, gratitude can make your entire life happier. And it can specifically… [Read More…]