Meet Ellen Eatough

Ellen Eatough HeadshotEllen Eatough, MA, “The Soulful Sex Coach” and sexual healer, has helped many thousands of people enjoy better sex with deeper intimacy. She is the founder and CEO of Extatica.com. A unique aspect of her work with clients and her products and programs is the use of subtle energies.

Ellen has developed innovative technologies and methods to help people connect deeply with their spiritual source through sexuality and intimate relationships. Since 1991, she has been using vibrational frequencies, including sound, colored light, and subtle energy, to help clients release and heal from sexual and relationship trauma so they can be free to enjoy fulfilling love lives.

She also incorporates subtle energies in her lovemaking enhancement system, “4 Keys to Sexual Ecstasy” and “Love Unbound” Music for Better Sex, both infused with Auditory Pheromones™. The enhanced music for lovemaking has been infused with 74 layers of resonant frequencies, which can have beneficial effects on brainwave speed, emotions, and the body. A research study with over 200 subjects is currently underway to assess the many reported sexual and intimacy benefits people have reported they experience when playing this music while making love.

Ellen is a certified hypnotherapist with a master’s degree in East-West Psychology (a marriage of western psychology and eastern spiritual traditions) from the California Institute for Integral Studies. She is also a trained practitioner in many energetic and somatic modalities.

Ellen’s Story

Ellen describes her work this way, “In very practical ways, I help people move toward fulfilling intimate relationships and ecstatic lovemaking, which I describe as a whole-body experience of physical bliss, emotional intimacy, and a sense of spiritual union. I also help clear out the cultural and religious inhibitions and personal wounding that get in the way of this.”

After seven years of doing mind-body healing and release work with clients, she suddenly began having dramatic personal encounters with sexual-spiritual ecstasy— so dramatic that she became a research subject in Dr. Jenny Wade’s nationwide study resulting in her book, Transcendent Sex: When Lovemaking Opens the Veil.

Ellen’s first impulse was to help others experience this expansive new realm she was discovering. This lead her on a mission to understand what it is that leads to truly ecstatic lovemaking so she could help people access it on a consistent basis.

To this end, she has spent years researching ancient sacred lovemaking traditions, contemporary psychology, and cutting-edge sex research. Out of this she identified four essential keys that ecstatic lovers spontaneously incorporate into their lovemaking — keys that others can learn and enjoy.

She began integrating and translating this information to reach today’s lovers. Ellen incorporates vibrational tools into her workshops and easy-to-use media products to help individuals and couples enhance their love lives easily and rapidly.

Her larger mission is to help heal the pervasive cultural “wound” that typically splits our sexuality and our spiritual lives. Her dream is to help us all cultivate the powerful energies of sexuality and an undefended heart so we can fully experience our divine nature in all of life.



GAIA Video #1:  “Honest Sex” – Season 1: Episode 24

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GAIA Video #2:  “Intimate Frequencies” – Season 1: Episode 25

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Ellen Eatough explores sexual-spiritual fulfillment on Healing Matrix with Regina Meredith!