It’s really common for people in long-term relationships fall into a “touch trap,” especially in bed. (Singles: there’s plenty here for you too.) Do you tend to associate physical expressions of affection toward (or from) your partner with sex, partly because early in your relationship, such expressions frequently did lead to sex? If so, you and… [Read More…]
Posts Categorized: Physical Bliss
Use Your Voice to Turn On
(aka “How to Get Out of Your Head and Into Your Body for Hotter Sex” – Part 2 of 2) In Part 1, I addressed “How to Talk Dirty without Being Dirty.” There’s another way to use your voice to get out of your head and into your body for better sex. This can be… [Read More…]
How to Talk Dirty Without Being Dirty
(aka “How to Get Out of Your Head and Into Your Body for Hotter Sex” – Part 1 of 2) Several years ago, I did a little survey, and about a thousand people responded, about 50/50 men and women. After the 20 questions and multiple choice, I had an open-ended question about your greatest challenge… [Read More…]
Find Your Edge – That’s Where Transformation Happens!
The power of sex is that it can provide even more than physical satisfaction and emotional and spiritual fulfillment (all extremely high value). Our sexuality also has vast potential to be a mechanism for expansion and transformation. This tip applies to our sexual, physical, emotional and spiritual edges. It applies to situations when you are… [Read More…]
Build a Sexual Bonfire
How to Build and Circulate Sexual Energy for the Most Pleasurable and Profound Lovemaking Experiences Imagine building a bonfire. You can’t get the biggest, hottest fire by putting a match to a log; you need kindling to get it started. Then, once you’ve got a good flame going with a few well-lit logs, you can… [Read More…]