Posts Tagged: sexual playfulness

Beware the Penetration Imperative (with video)

Have you fallen into this rut, which so many couples in long-term relationships fall into? It’s when one or both of you don’t move very far beyond “interest” to real desire, much less passion and high arousal, before proceeding to intercourse. When was the last time you did something together — anything! …just for the… [Read More…]

To Give and Receive Better Sex – Watch Others

I recently had conversations with two women you may relate to (from their partner’s perspectives, if you’re a man). The first I met last week at a conference. I’ll call her Nancy (I always protect confidential conversations). She wrote me afterwards, saying: I wish I had found you a year ago! I thought I had… [Read More…]