It’s easy to get caught up thinking about how we’d like our current partner to change or what the perfect partner would be like. The truth is, what we long for in relationship is a clue to what we need to cultivate in ourselves in order to get what we want. Let me explain. And… [Read More…]
Posts Tagged: better relationships
IS THE “PUSH-PULL DYNAMIC” THREATENING YOUR RELATIONSHIP?
“Why are you pulling away, just when things were getting good?” When we become increasingly intimate with another person, particularly in a sexual relationship, all kinds of fears and vulnerabilities can arise, often at an unconscious level. This is quite natural and common, and often happens to either or both partners just when things have… [Read More…]
How to Get Kissed the Way You Like It
Do you remember how exciting kissing was, once upon a time… maybe as a teenager, when you knew that kissing was as far as you would go? (This was a fairly extended period of time for me since, as my sons say, I was a “goody two-shoes” in high school. And I could have easily… [Read More…]
Find Your Edge – That’s Where Transformation Happens!
The power of sex is that it can provide even more than physical satisfaction and emotional and spiritual fulfillment (all extremely high value). Our sexuality also has vast potential to be a mechanism for expansion and transformation. This tip applies to our sexual, physical, emotional and spiritual edges. It applies to situations when you are… [Read More…]
Use Your Voice to Turn On
(aka “How to Get Out of Your Head and Into Your Body for Hotter Sex” – Part 2 of 2) In Part 1, I addressed “How to Talk Dirty without Being Dirty.” There’s another way to use your voice to get out of your head and into your body for better sex. This can be… [Read More…]