“Why are you pulling away, just when things were getting good?” When we become increasingly intimate with another person, particularly in a sexual relationship, all kinds of fears and vulnerabilities can arise, often at an unconscious level. This is quite natural and common, and often happens to either or both partners just when things have… [Read More…]
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How Gratitude Gives You Better Sex and Greater Happiness
I overheard someone say they are so grateful to have you in their life, for the wonderful person you are and for all you do! Let that sink in. Doesn’t the idea of hearing that make you feel all warm and fuzzy and interested in, even open-hearted toward, whoever is expressing appreciation for you? And… [Read More…]
Here’s Where to Find Ecstasy
“The gap between your goal and where you are now can hinder you,” my instructor once said during yoga class. She was encouraging us to relax into a pose rather than force it. She went on to say that there is no feedback in that gap; the only feedback is in the present. This, of… [Read More…]
Change Up Your Thrusting Patterns – Part 3 of 3
THE $1000 TIP TO BUILD SEXUAL ENERGY Would you like to dramatically heighten your sexual energy and intensity during penetration? A while back I wrote about varying thrusting patterns. (The links to those tips are below.) “Sets of Nine” is a specific thrusting pattern drawn from the ancient Taoist lovemaking tradition. It is said to… [Read More…]
Use Your Voice to Turn On
(aka “How to Get Out of Your Head and Into Your Body for Hotter Sex” – Part 2 of 2) In Part 1, I addressed “How to Talk Dirty without Being Dirty.” There’s another way to use your voice to get out of your head and into your body for better sex. This can be… [Read More…]