Touch Men and Women Differently

Having grown up with “The Golden Rule,” most of us naturally think we should touch our partner in the way that we would like to be touched. However, human evolution has lead to a physiological gender difference that is important to understand when it comes to physical intimacy. Treating others the way we want to… [Read More…]

Give Thanks for Your Relationships

HAPPY THANKSGIVING FOR THOSE OF YOU IN THE US! Any Day is a Good Day to Give Thanks for Your Relationships, Intimate and Otherwise. If the entirety of a love partnership is not a priority in your life, then the sexual aspect of your relationship will never be as fulfilling as it can be for… [Read More…]

Connect the Dots to Eroticize Your Body

Everyone knows the story of Pavlov and his dogs… but there is more to this story than meets the eye. Pavlov, a 19th century Russian physiologist, would ring a bell every time he fed his dogs. Eventually, this created a neurological pattern whereby the dogs would begin to salivate any time the bell was rung,… [Read More…]

The Bridge Between Self and Spirit

Your ability to connect emotionally (or your limitations in this arena) is probably the #1 thing that makes your love life (and your sex) beautiful and deeply fulfilling or challenging and frustrating, often stuck in the same old patterns – or worse! On Wednesday, I interviewed Raphael Cushnir on my Extatica radio show.* The topic was: “How Sexual Energy Reveals Your Essence.”… [Read More…]