I love to dance. I especially love partner dancing. One evening, my partner and I were in the kitchen after dinner when some evocative dance music came up on the CD that was playing in the nearby darkened living room. I invited him, a fairly good dancer who has to be in just the right… [Read More…]
How to Use Sexual Energy for Healing
Your hands, your heart, and a man’s penis can be instruments for sexual healing. I’m going to discuss a couple of easy ways to heal yourself or your partner with sexual energy. One method helps a woman’s vagina become more sexually responsive. As you’ve undoubtedly noticed, sexual activity generates a lot of energy. That’s one… [Read More…]
BEWARE “THE TOUCH TRAP:” Touch More, Even When You Don’t Feel Sexy.
It’s really common for people in long-term relationships fall into a “touch trap,” especially in bed. (Singles: there’s plenty here for you too.) Do you tend to associate physical expressions of affection toward (or from) your partner with sex, partly because early in your relationship, such expressions frequently did lead to sex? If so, you and… [Read More…]
Find Your Edge – That’s Where Transformation Happens!
The power of sex is that it can provide even more than physical satisfaction and emotional and spiritual fulfillment (all extremely high value). Our sexuality also has vast potential to be a mechanism for expansion and transformation. This tip applies to our sexual, physical, emotional and spiritual edges. It applies to situations when you are… [Read More…]
Consider Genital Reflexology – Part 2 of 2
In Part 1 on this topic, I described genital reflexology. This information has several implications for lovemaking, alone or with a lover. Felice Dunas, Ph.D., author of Passion Play, is an acupuncturist and expert on Chinese medicine and the health benefits of erotic love. In her book, she discusses these reflexology points in detail. Dunas… [Read More…]