Remember the song by Madonna, which goes, “Like a virgin, touched for the very first time…”? Well, if you want the best sex possible on a continuing basis, I highly recommend you try taking Madonna’s advice or adopt a Zen “beginner’s mind” into your sexual experience, alone or with a partner! Leave your expectations or… [Read More…]
Beyond Words: Non-Verbal Ways to Express Desire When Finding the Right Words Is Difficult
For many couples, especially those who’ve been together for decades, talking explicitly about sexual desires can feel uncomfortable. Oddly enough, even if your formative years included the “free love” era, this rarely involved detailed discussion of what you wanted, how you wanted it, and when you wanted it. We were raised at a time where… [Read More…]
Embracing Body Changes: How Physical Evolution Can Deepen Sexual Connection
Let’s talk honestly about something many couples struggle with as they age: our bodies change. Hormonal shifts, decreased mobility, longer arousal times – these physical realities can feel like obstacles to sexual fulfillment. But what if I told you these very changes could be doorways to more profound intimate connection? In my work with couples… [Read More…]
Get More Sex When You Clear Up This Common Misunderstanding
Men and women typically have different interpretations of the response, “I don’t know,” when they ask their partners if they want to have sex. Your partner can mean something totally different than you think! And this can lead to a missed opportunity for lovemaking. In this tip I explain how to overcome this problem for… [Read More…]
Find Your Edge – That’s Where Transformation Happens!
The power of sex is that it can provide even more than physical satisfaction and emotional and spiritual fulfillment (all extremely high value). Our sexuality also has vast potential to be a mechanism for expansion and transformation. This tip applies to our sexual, physical, emotional and spiritual edges. It applies to situations when you are… [Read More…]