Posts Categorized: Emotional Intimacy

LOVE TIP: “50 Shades of Grey” and Sexual Healing

When a Lover Avoids Intimacy or Wants to Control or Hurt You (or you them) on a Regular Basis, Look for Past Trauma When the 50 Shades of Grey books became a phenomenon, I got the audio version, so I could listen while I was driving or doing the dishes. To be honest, I didn’t… [Read More…]

LOVE TIP: Valentine’s Day SUCKS, IF…

…we tell ourselves stories about what happens (or doesn’t happen) means …and those stories suck. Expectations run high, and so does disappointment. The whole idea of Valentine’s Day is that we should feel loving and loved and happy, right? Well, true happiness lies in Loving What Is, as the title of Byron Katie’s book so… [Read More…]

RESOLVE TO “DO IT” FOR YOUR HEALTH

Happy New Year! How about a resolution that makes you feel great, is FUN while you do it, and is proven to enhance your health and well being (mental, emotional and physical)? Resolve to have sex more often! More on the many benefits (read: excuses to have more sex) in a moment, but let’s start… [Read More…]

Touch Men and Women Differently

Having grown up with “The Golden Rule,” most of us naturally think we should touch our partner in the way that we would like to be touched. However, human evolution has lead to a physiological gender difference that is important to understand when it comes to physical intimacy. Treating others the way we want to… [Read More…]

Give Thanks for Your Relationships

HAPPY THANKSGIVING FOR THOSE OF YOU IN THE US! Any Day is a Good Day to Give Thanks for Your Relationships, Intimate and Otherwise. If the entirety of a love partnership is not a priority in your life, then the sexual aspect of your relationship will never be as fulfilling as it can be for… [Read More…]