The more aspects of ourselves we are able to bring to our sexual encounters, the more enjoyment we can experience. But, as in most of life, we tend to fall into behavioral ruts, hanging out in our comfort zone – which can be limiting , and lead to loss of interest in your sex life. It’s… [Read More…]
Posts Categorized: Emotional Intimacy
BEWARE “THE TOUCH TRAP:” Touch More, Even When You Don’t Feel Sexy.
It’s really common for people in long-term relationships fall into a “touch trap,” especially in bed. (Singles: there’s plenty here for you too.) Do you tend to associate physical expressions of affection toward (or from) your partner with sex, partly because early in your relationship, such expressions frequently did lead to sex? If so, you and… [Read More…]
Here’s Where to Find Ecstasy
“The gap between your goal and where you are now can hinder you,” my instructor said during yoga last night. She was encouraging us to relax into a pose rather than force it. She went on to say that there is no feedback in that gap; the only feedback is in the present. This, of… [Read More…]
How Gratitude to Improves Your Sex Life [Brain Science]
Science has now proven how gratitude can improve your love life (including your sex life). I know, the connection may seem a little murky or like a big leap, but it’s actually very clear and direct. If you’ll stick with me, I’ll connect the dots… First, gratitude can make your entire life happier. And it… [Read More…]
Clear Up This Common Misunderstanding for More Frequent Sex
Men and women typically have different interpretations of the response, “I don’t know,” when they ask their partners if they want to have sex. Your partner can mean something totally different than you think! And this can lead to a missed opportunity for lovemaking. In this tip I explain how to overcome this problem for… [Read More…]