A New View on “Doggie Style”

Remember Pavlov’s dogs? Well, a brief lesson from these doggies can help you enjoy more full-body erotic pleasure. If you took high school science, this may ring a bell (pun intended)… but there is more to this doggie style story than meets the eye. Pavlov, a 19th century Russian physiologist, would ring a bell every… [Read More…]

EXPAND YOUR CAPACITY FOR PLEASURE

One morning while we were making love, I hit upon something I never knew existed… I bumped up against my pleasure threshold! Whoa! Too intense! I contracted and backed off, which I’m sure I’ve done before — unconsciously. The difference this time was I could see it. I couldn’t quite verbalize it, but my very intuitive… [Read More…]

Be “Like a Virgin”… Again and Again

Remember the song by Madonna, which goes, “Like a virgin, touched for the very first time…”? Well, if you want the best sex possible on a continuing basis, I highly recommend you try taking Madonna’s advice or adopt a Zen “beginner’s mind” into your sexual experience, alone or with a partner! Leave your expectations or… [Read More…]

BEWARE “THE TOUCH TRAP:” Touch More, Even When You Don’t Feel Sexy.

It’s really common for people in long-term relationships fall into a “touch trap,” especially in bed. (Singles: there’s plenty here for you too.) Do you tend to associate physical expressions of affection toward (or from) your partner with sex, partly because early in your relationship, such expressions frequently did lead to sex? If so, you and… [Read More…]