Beware the Penetration Imperative

Have you fallen into this rut that so many couples in long-term relationships fall into? It’s when one or both of you don’t move very far beyond “interest” to real desire, much less passion and high arousal, before having sex. When was the last time you did something — anything! …just for the delicious pleasure… [Read More...]

Wild-Haired Abandon

Most of us relish the idea of passionate, spontaneous lovemaking. The idea of total wild-haired abandon sounds thrilling, doesn’t it? – and simultaneously terrifying. Why? Because most of us fear losing control. Do I need to remind you that one reason orgasm is so sought after is BECAUSE we lose control, we go beyond our… [Read More...]