How to Elicit What You Want in Your Partner

It’s easy to get caught up thinking about how we’d like our current partner to change or what the perfect partner would be like. The truth is, what we long for in relationship is a clue to what we need to cultivate in ourselves in order to get what we want. Let me explain. And… [Read More…]

To Give and Receive Better Sex – Watch Others

I recently had conversations with two women you may relate to (from their partner’s perspectives, if you’re a man). The first I met last week at a conference. I’ll call her Nancy (I always protect confidential conversations). She wrote me afterwards, saying: I wish I had found you a year ago! I thought I had… [Read More…]

For “OUT OF THE BALLPARK SEX”… do this

Remember the old baseball analogy that boys used to describe how far they got (or didn’t get) sexually with a girl? (I know this is old school – now they often just “hook up.”) Anyway, you may recall they would talk about getting to “second base,” “scoring ” or hitting a “home run.” Or they’d… [Read More…]