Posts Categorized: Physical Bliss

BEWARE “THE TOUCH TRAP:” Touch More, Even When You Don’t Feel Sexy.

It’s really common for people in long-term relationships fall into a “touch trap,” especially in bed. (Singles: there’s plenty here for you too.) Do you tend to associate physical expressions of affection toward (or from) your partner with sex, partly because early in your relationship, such expressions frequently did lead to sex? If so, you and… [Read More…]

Build a Sexual Bonfire

How to Build and Circulate Sexual Energy for the Most Pleasurable and Profound Lovemaking Experiences  Imagine building a bonfire. You can’t get the biggest, hottest fire by putting a match to a log; you need kindling to get it started. Then, once you’ve got a good flame going with a few well-lit logs, you can… [Read More…]

To Give and Receive Better Sex – Watch Others

I recently had conversations with two women you may relate to (from their partner’s perspectives, if you’re a man). The first I met last week at a conference. I’ll call her Nancy (I always protect confidential conversations). She wrote me afterwards, saying: I wish I had found you a year ago! I thought I had… [Read More…]