Posts Categorized: Emotional Intimacy

BEWARE “THE TOUCH TRAP:” Touch More, Even When You Don’t Feel Sexy.

It’s really common for people in long-term relationships fall into a “touch trap,” especially in bed. (Singles: there’s plenty here for you too.) Do you tend to associate physical expressions of affection toward (or from) your partner with sex, partly because early in your relationship, such expressions frequently did lead to sex? If so, you and… [Read More…]

Consider Genital Reflexology – Part 1 of 2

You’ve probably heard of foot reflexology, where massaging various parts of the feet energetically stimulates or relaxes the various organs of the body reflected in those parts. Well, have you ever heard of genital reflexology? According to traditional Chinese medicine, there are specific areas of and around the penis and vagina that correspond with the… [Read More…]

Use Your Voice to Turn On

(aka “How to Get Out of Your Head and Into Your Body for Hotter Sex” – Part 2 of 2) In Part 1, I addressed “How to Talk Dirty without Being Dirty.” There’s another way to use your voice to get out of your head and into your body for better sex. This can be… [Read More…]