“Why are you pulling away, just when things were getting good?” When we become increasingly intimate with another person, particularly in a sexual relationship, all kinds of fears and vulnerabilities can arise, often at an unconscious level. This is quite natural and common, and often happens to either or both partners just when things have… [Read More…]
Posts Tagged: better relationships
How to Get Kissed the Way You Like It
Do you remember how exciting kissing was, once upon a time… maybe as a teenager, when you knew that kissing was as far as you would go? (This was a fairly extended period of time for me since, as my sons say, I was a “goody two-shoes” in high school. And I could have easily… [Read More…]
How to Get What You Want From Your Partner
It’s easy to get caught up thinking about how we’d like our current partner to change or what the perfect partner would be like. The truth is, what we long for in relationship is a clue to what we need to cultivate in ourselves in order to get what we want. Let me explain. And… [Read More…]
How to Talk Dirty Without Being Dirty
(aka “How to Get Out of Your Head and Into Your Body for Hotter Sex” – Part 1 of 2) Several years ago, I did a little survey, and about a thousand people responded, about 50/50 men and women. After the 20 questions and multiple choice, I had an open-ended question about your greatest challenge… [Read More…]
Find Your Edge – That’s Where Transformation Happens!
The power of sex is that it can provide even more than physical satisfaction and emotional and spiritual fulfillment (all extremely high value). Our sexuality also has vast potential to be a mechanism for expansion and transformation. This tip applies to our sexual, physical, emotional and spiritual edges. It applies to situations when you are… [Read More…]