“Do You Want to RELEASE
the Guilt, Shame, Pain, Betrayal, Heartbreak,
Repression and Restrictions of Your Past?"
Break Through and BE FREE!
to
Enjoy More Love and Trust, Higher Self-Esteem,
Greater Self-Expression, More Confidence, and
the Deep Intimacy with Great Sex You Deserve
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Hi, I’m Ellen Eatough, “The Soulful Sex Coach” and founder of Extatica.com. Since 1991, I’ve helped people release sexual and relationship trauma. You may or may not have personally experienced sexual trauma of this magnitude. Over years of working one-on-one with clients seeking a healthy and fulfilling sex-life, I have found that even subtle past experiences (that seem insignificant by comparison) can hold you back from having deep, intimate relationships and satisfying, ecstatic lovemaking. |
This is a very delicate subject, and it’s hard for any of us to openly acknowledge the painful or troublesome areas of our sexuality and our intimate relationships. Even if you can’t identify dominant sexual trauma in your past, your ability to fully embrace your sexuality and let go into the moment may stem from relatively minor events you may have overlooked -- or even forgotten -- but the emotionally scarring energy remains locked up inside you.
Whether or not you’ve experienced major sexual trauma, if you feel a part of you can’t fully let go into the deep intimacy and spontaneous sexual pleasure you desire (and you may not know why), I can help you!
Do you experience any of the following
potential symptoms of past trauma?
- Guilt and/or shame
- Physical and emotional pain or numbness
- Feelings of inadequacy, confusion, inferiority and worthlessness
- Fear of intimacy
- Disconnection between sex and love/intimacy/emotions
- Inability to trust others
- Fears of abandonment and/or entrapment
- Inability to let go and fully enjoy sex
- Excessive demands for sex
- Inability to reach orgasm during sex
- Avoidance or lack of interest in sex
- Inability or difficulty making decisions & commitments
- Needing pornography or other stimuli to engage in sex
- Inability to become erect or maintain an erection
- Distorted view of natural sexual behavior (sex is gross)
- Irrational jealousy
- Fear of betrayal, and/or violence
- Depression
- Isolation
- Suicidal thoughts or actions
Both major trauma (such as rape, molestation, actual parental abandonment, and significant religious oppression), and more minor distressing events can result in the above symptoms.
There are many more symptoms not listed, which may interfere with enjoying a healthy, fulfilling sex life.
Examples of common “minor” past events that may hold you back:
Perhaps you were left alone sitting on a curb when someone forgot to pick you up after school or an event... |
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Perhaps you had an emotionally distant parent, or an overly controlling religion, or lived in a household with parents constantly fighting... |
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If we don’t clear them out…
…our responses to major, or seemingly minor, events get lodged in our cellular memory, and they insidiously affect our relationships, especially our intimate relationships, and our sex lives.
Our first job in the face of trauma, whether it’s one sudden event or a series of events, is to protect ourselves and survive. It’s natural and necessary to protect yourself, physically and emotionally.
The problem is we develop habits and patterns around those responses, and we become stuck with knee-jerk responses to situations that trigger us, which may no longer serve us as adults. And these responses and patterns are often unconscious or only partially conscious. Worse yet, they really hold us back from the lives we want to live.
Regardless of the magnitude of the distressing events in your life, the negative emotions, thwarted expression, and the bound up energy from past events (no matter how major or minor) may still be controlling, inhibiting or limiting your success in your intimate relationships, your sexuality, and other areas of your life.
Sometimes we think our issues
aren’t big enough to warrant attention.
Let me tell you, if you feel in ANY WAY limited
in being deeply intimate with yourself or your partner, or
inhibited in your full, spontaneous, sexual expression,
your issues DO warrant attention.
Why? Because your sexuality and your ability to be intimate affect your confidence and every area of your life – really, they do!
So, how do you break up and clear out the habits,
patterns and emotions that no longer serve us?
Fortunately, it’s not really that difficult, once you know how. The worst (the initial event or events) is likely behind you -- the tasks at hand are to clear out the residual energetic blocks and response patterns and learn new skill sets to replace your limiting or dysfunctional behaviors.
If any of the above situations or symptoms are keeping you from getting the most out of your love life, I have a program that will help you…
"Ecstasy" by Maxfield Parrish
Introducing
“SEXUAL HEALING, RELEASE, AND REINTEGRATION”
an 8-Week Immersion Program to
Release
the Guilt, Shame, Pain, Betrayal, Heartbreak,
Repression and Restrictions of Your Past
so you can
Break Through and BE FREE!
Finally, Enjoy More Love and Trust, Higher Self-Esteem,
Greater Self-Expression, More Confidence, and
the Deep Intimacy with Great Sex You Deserve!
In “SEXUAL HEALING, RELEASE, AND REINTEGRATION” we’ll use gentle, easy processes to release these energies and negative feelings for good -- a no-nonsense way to delete the pesky, painful residue of past trauma and reconnect with the spiritual and loving side of your relationships and your sexuality.
Immediate Benefits
"I trusted Ellen immediately which allowed for rapid transformational work; she is a wonderful, very skilled facilitator. I enjoyed our session with the Lumatron light stimulator very much, and as a result I really moved a lot of toxic energy out of my system. I felt a de-tox effect, but I also felt highly sensuous afterwards."
- Steven, Larkspur, CA
Long-Lasting Results
A woman I’ll call Carole (to protect her confidentiality) wrote the following on a card she sent me years after we had worked together for only two months. When she first came to me, she was feeling unlucky in love; she had been repeatedly molested as a child and raped as an adult:
"Well, the sexual and relationship thing is handled! Ellen, I really attribute a lot of the wonderful things that have happened in my life to the work I did with you with the Lumatron [an instrument that projects colored light into the eyes] five years ago. Soon thereafter, I went to India and met my soul mate. We came back to the U.S., got married and bought a lovely home. I've since launched into free-lance work and am very happy.”
- Carole, San Jose, CA
If you’ve listened to my December 29th experiential teleseminar "Sexual Healing Secrets,” you experienced an example of one of these processes that left participants feeling empowered, peaceful, and even ecstatic. Click here to LISTEN TO THE REPLAY.
In the 8-Week Immersion Program, we’ll go deep -- gently. We’ll tap into those haunting thoughts, irrational emotions, and tensions held in your body that have been holding you back and pull them out by the roots. You’ll release the past trauma and the self-limiting patterns you developed in response to it that no longer serve you.
If you have experienced rape, molestation, incest, other violence, parental abandonment (even fleeting incidents of it), religious or cultural repression that affects you, this program will help you break free from the shackles that bind you, so you can live a more open-hearted, spontaneous, and fulfilling life.
For many, seeking help and healing for these events goes on the back burner - often never attended to. Traditional therapies can be very costly and seem invasive, emotionally draining, even threatening. One of the greatest features of this program is that it enables you to release the harmful thoughts and emotions, clear out the blocked energy, and receive healing, in a peaceful, gentle manner.
Tools to Help You for a Lifetime
This is a “High-Touch” group program where you will learn tools and techniques that you can use for a lifetime to continue releasing and clearing for healing of mind-body and spirit.
In addition, we’ll use two “energetic” tools – COLORED light projected into the eyes and music composed with brainwave entrainment and infused with resonant frequencies. These tools, combined with special techniques (like eye movement) will help:
- Release trauma and associated patterns you’ve developed in response to it,
- Soothe and open your energy channels that may have been constricted or shut down by your natural self-protective responses to past disturbing or threatening events, and
- Integrate your thoughts, feelings and bodily responses.
We’ll do the same kind of work that I do with private clients.
The results of working with these tools include:
- Ability to Give and Receive More Love
- Greater Trust
- Deeper Intimacy with Yourself and Others
- Easier, Freer Self-Expression
- Higher Self-Esteem
- Increased Confidence
- Greater Physical and Emotional Vitality
- Peace of Mind
- The Great Sex You Deserve
(Note: This program is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any disease.)
Here’s What You’ll Get When You Invest in Yourself by Ordering
* An Immersion Program with a “Blanket of Support” from me, Ellen Eatough, MA, CHT:
- I will personally review your preliminary worksheets and checklists before the program starts and send you your personal color protocol for use with your online streaming color light program (included).
* For 8 Weeks:
- Weekly overview of your personal progress (based on checklists you will submit)
- Weekly Training Calls –- You’ll learn other tools like the exercise we did on the "Sexual Healing Secrets" teleseminar.
I’ll also teach you how each color we’ll be using typically impacts us, physically, emotionally, and energetically, and how each color has it’s own set of primary and secondary signs and symptoms associated with it. We’ll work with the colors to help you move along your personal spectrum from restricted to healthy responses and ways of being.
- 8 Weekly Group Coaching Calls -- This is an opportunity to get special attention from me; active participation is strictly voluntary.
- 5 Live Guided Meditation Sessions Per Week (15-20 minutes each) – to maintain momentum and support you while you use your color and sound protocols. (Replays available immediately afterward.)
(Although there will be opportunity to share, receive individual coaching, and participate in demonstrations of release processes on the calls, this is not primarily a group sharing program.)
* 60-Day Subscription to Online Streaming COLORED Light Program
This program projects colored light into your eyes through your computer monitor.
* “4 Keys to Sexual Ecstasy” Lovemaking Transformation System
(Retail Price is $497, and I’m including it at no extra charge.) It will be shipped to you as soon as you place your order for the “SEXUAL HEALING, RELEASE, AND REINTEGRATION” program. This system is an integral part of the program. I will guide you in using it, specifically for the purposes of this program. Among its several components, it has special music composed with brainwave entrainment and infused with resonant frequencies to break up patterns. |
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The reason I’m including it in this program, is because it will:
- Help you:
- break up self-limiting patterns and reconnect you with your spirit
- re-establish deep intimacy with yourself,
- support self-love, and
- re-connect with your body.
- Later, you’ll use it to deepen intimacy with a partner, if you have one.
- It’s also an important component for Step 6 of the 8-week program, which is: “Replace Self-Limiting or Dysfunctional Behaviors with New and Empowering Skills for Intimacy, Sexual Pleasure, and Deep Peace.”
This compact system really does produce maximum high-impact results in minimum time. And that’s what I know you want.
(To learn more about the “4 Keys to Sexual Ecstasy” lovemaking transformation system, Click Here.)
If you already purchased this system, you will be given an automatic credit when you register for "SEXUAL HEALING, RELEASE, AND REINTEGRATION." (Please see below.)
* Access to a Private Community Site -- This is where you can participate voluntarily and anonymously. You can ask me questions, and give and receive support from other participants.
The
“SEXUAL HEALING, RELEASE, AND REINTEGRATION”
program
will take place
Monday, January 10th, through March 7th, 2011.
Couples: 2 for the Price of 1
(If you share bed and bank account, you can both participate for the price of one.)
Automatic Credit Exclusively for
“4 Keys to Sexual Ecstasy” Customers:
If you have purchased the “4 Keys to Sexual Ecstasy” system during 2010, when you order below you will receive an automatic credit for the full-pay price of your "4 Keys" purchase. The way this works is $297 has already been deducted from the full program price in the "order buttons" below. This means you will pay only $700 for the “SEXUAL HEALING, RELEASE, AND REINTEGRATION” program (instead of the full "Early Bird," price of $997) if you register by January 3rd.
Please do not use this page if you don’t already own the system. It is an integral part of the “Sexual Healing Secrets” program, and you won’t receive the system if you use this page.
NOTE: If you purchased the system before 2010, please contact the Extatica office by email or call (415) 388-6766, and we will manually process your order and deduction.
Hurry! The program begins on January 10th, If you have purchased the "4 Keys" system in 2010, your "Automatic Credit " is reflected in the prices below. Full program price with the "4 Keys" system included: $1297 minus $297 (for "4 Keys" system you already have) = $1000
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(Multiple payments will be billed 30 days apart.)
This work has always produced these kinds of results for my clients. If you try this program for a week and feel it’s not the right fit for you, you can cancel by January 16th for a full refund of the program price (less shipping and handling charges). Note: the refund time frame for this guarantee also pertains to the “4 Keys to Sexual System,” which is included in this program.
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To healing, so you can have a more fulfilling love life,







