The more aspects of ourselves we are able to bring to our sexual encounters, the more enjoyment we can experience. But, as in most of life, we tend to fall into behavioral ruts, hanging out in our comfort zone – which can be limiting , and lead to loss of interest in your sex life. It’s… [Read More…]
Posts Categorized: Physical Bliss
To Give and Receive Better Sex – Watch Others
I recently had conversations with two women you may relate to (from their partner’s perspectives, if you’re a man). The first I met last week at a conference. I’ll call her Nancy (I always protect confidential conversations). She wrote me afterwards, saying: I wish I had found you a year ago! I thought I had… [Read More…]
Touch Men and Women Differently
Having grown up with “The Golden Rule,” most of us naturally think we should touch our partner in the way that we would like to be touched. However, human evolution has lead to a physiological gender difference that is important to understand when it comes to physical intimacy. Treating others the way we want to… [Read More…]
Know Thyself, and Share That Knowledge With Your Partner
As we age or get busy with the functional and intellectual aspects of life, we may lose touch with our sensuality and desire. So to enhance your sex life, it’s important to reconnect with your body and your desire. Even if your body doesn’t match your ideas of the perfect one (or even what yours… [Read More…]
Connect the Dots to Eroticize Your Body
Everyone knows the story of Pavlov and his dogs… but there is more to this story than meets the eye. Pavlov, a 19th century Russian physiologist, would ring a bell every time he fed his dogs. Eventually, this created a neurological pattern whereby the dogs would begin to salivate any time the bell was rung,… [Read More…]