The more aspects of ourselves we are able to bring to our sexual encounters, the more enjoyment we can experience. But, as in most of life, we tend to fall into behavioral ruts, hanging out in our comfort zone – which can be limiting , and lead to loss of interest in your sex life. It’s… [Read More…]
Posts Categorized: Emotional Intimacy
LOVE TIP: “50 Shades of Grey” and Sexual Healing
When a Lover Avoids Intimacy or Wants to Control or Hurt You (or you them) on a Regular Basis, Look for Past Trauma When the 50 Shades of Grey books became a phenomenon, I got the audio version, so I could listen while I was driving or doing the dishes. To be honest, I didn’t… [Read More…]
LOVE TIP: Valentine’s Day SUCKS, IF…
…we tell ourselves stories about what happens (or doesn’t happen) means …and those stories suck. Expectations run high, and so does disappointment. The whole idea of Valentine’s Day is that we should feel loving and loved and happy, right? Well, true happiness lies in Loving What Is, as the title of Byron Katie’s book so… [Read More…]
Touch Men and Women Differently
Having grown up with “The Golden Rule,” most of us naturally think we should touch our partner in the way that we would like to be touched. However, human evolution has lead to a physiological gender difference that is important to understand when it comes to physical intimacy. Treating others the way we want to… [Read More…]
Give Thanks for Your Relationships
HAPPY THANKSGIVING FOR THOSE OF YOU IN THE US! Any Day is a Good Day to Give Thanks for Your Relationships, Intimate and Otherwise. If the entirety of a love partnership is not a priority in your life, then the sexual aspect of your relationship will never be as fulfilling as it can be for… [Read More…]