"OUT OF THE BALLPARK" SEX
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So, it's back to baseball. Most yang dominant men (or females with predominately yang energy) learned at some point in their sex lives that they had to go through first, second and third bases to score. Then, once they are in a comfortable relationship, they may try starting with third base, or even a home run, forgetting all the preliminaries that may have contributed to great sex early in the relationship.
There's nothing wrong with the occasional "quickie." Quickies can be fun and playful, and perhaps better than nothing when time is short. But realize there will be a limit to the depth and range of satisfaction most women can get from it. You need to run all the bases for the most deeply fulfilling sex. So be sure to balance any short sessions with a full nine innings, prefaced with plenty of pre-game warm-ups (read romance and affection), if she is to access the full range of her feminine sexual potential.
After all, what masculine lover doesn't want a partner who is fully receptive, responsive, ecstatic and, ultimately, fulfilled? And the feminine lover who has been getting plenty of deeply fulfilling "run all the bases" lovemaking is more likely to be interested in going (or at least willing to go) directly from first base to home plate once in a while.
If you are a man or woman alone, this applies to you too. Try relaxing, pampering and slowly expressing physical love for yourself, gradually increasing your arousal from time to time. This can be much more satisfying than going straight for the release with a routine "home run."
Remember that in baseball, even when you hit the ball out of the ballpark, you still have to run all the bases to score.
© Copyright 2004 by Ellen Eatough, MA. All Rights Reserved.
