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Living The Divine Masculine cont.

Three or so days later, the woman will actually give birth to this energy. So all of a sudden she's angry, and doesn't understand why. Out of nowhere, she's totally angry, when in actuality the energy that he has deposited in her has now had enough time to integrate itself into her and come out as a manifestation. So in light of that process, it is very important for a man even if he brings anger home, that he says, "Baby, you know what, I'm carrying so much anger right now from work today, and I would love if we could come together and consciously transmute it."

So in this process, he still downloads the negative feelings into the woman, but after he downloads it and he's free of it, then he consciously engages with her so that she can in turn, turn right around and bring that energy back to the head of his penis in order for it to be transmuted. She is assisting him in processing what he's feeling, but instead of him just dumping it and walking off, he turns around and helps her transmute it so that it is no longer there to disturb either one of them. Most men have not been aware of the second half of the process.

RW: I think that is an understatement! Well, how is this psychic matter transmuted from the head of the penis?

SN: The head of the man's penis is electrical. So when the women brings anything that has a less than positive charge on it, the penis energy immediately transmutes it and changes it into a positive form. At that point, the anger or the emotion is transformed. And now the energy is just pure energy again. It comes back into the woman as a wave of bliss, and it runs into the man as an orgasmic wave.

RW: So if he brings it into her, she brings it back to him, puts it on the penis. It's then transformed into bliss. Sounds like a good system.

SN: Exactly. Bliss for her and orgasmic bliss for him. So it's almost like a field in which you make higher ecstatic energy. You create this field that can be used to transform negativity that you encounter in your life on a daily basis.

RW: If you can bring that level of consciousness to the process.

SN: Yes, if you can bring that level of consciousness to the process. So the woman becomes able to assist that man without becoming a dump site that is just dumped in continuously.

The same thing is going on with the earth. We have just been dumping in the earth, but we have not used our intelligence to see how you transform whatever you put into the dump, how to make it recyclable, so that it actually becomes a functional working part of the earth again. Women, the earth, it is the same, and we have not taken care of either. We've dumped, but we have not taken care to work with them and be present for them in order for them to take whatever is involved and recycle it so that it is no longer poisoning them.

RW: So these tools, and of course we are just barely touching upon the depth of the work that you do, how open do you find that men are to them? Can they easily make this shift? What are some of the obstacles they face in this work?

SN: Pride is one of the major obstacles. A lot of men do not want to even begin to sit still to expose themselves to concepts that they don't already know. I have had to design ways to offset that by demonstrating the concepts to men with a woman in order for them to actually see and visualize where a woman is capable of going. Once they see this demonstration, and once they see how far they are from even beginning to do what they've witnessed, only then do they open themselves for some kind of communication around these new concepts. But if I just talk to them, I find that it has absolutely no bearing.

RW: They need the experiential. They need to have it imprinted on their body. They need to touch it and see it.

SN: What I've noticed when talking to men is that they assume they already know women. So they can't even visualize anything different from what they know. I may say something to them. They go, "Oh yeah, yeah. I know that." But if they see a woman move and respond through the process that I'm taking her through and then they see that there are things going on that they've never witnessed before in their life, then all of a sudden their whole attitude changes. They're more humble. They're more willing to say, "Well, I don't even understand how what I just saw could happen." And then that opens a door for me to be able to have a much deeper communication with them. I then get the chance to start communicating with them about the energy world, how the energy world works. If I tell a man that I can bring a woman to orgasm from across the room, he won't believe me. If he sees me bring a woman to orgasm from across the room, I've got his attention.

RW: Is there a way you are being that is an alternative masculine that they are also witnessing that they can now aspire to, that they did not see before?

SN: Totally. In many ways what I am doing is demonstrating a totally new way of being on the planet as a man. I am introducing the option of a man being present and really starting to learn and function with total awareness from the energy level rather than walking around thinking that everything is solid. The moment that a man sees some of these demonstrations, his mind opens to realize, wait a minute: If you did that from that distance, then that means there is a possibility of some energy that's here that I have not really given any validity to. There's something here bigger than my mind can even wrap around.

I'm opening a door for a man to start to be present with a woman and know what it feels like to be making love to her twenty four hours a day seven days a week, just in how he moves through the room, how he utilizes his energy, how he walks, everything that he's doing in light of how the woman's perception is so dispersed. Everything that he does in a room is impacting on her and having some influence and impact on her energetically. So the more that he becomes aware of the energy world, the more that he moves through the world and moves in and around women as though his very movement is making love to them. Given this awareness, the woman feels more loved, nurtured and safe. They start to really enjoy and appreciate being a woman because of the way the men around them are moving-- it is bringing up some of the most exquisite textures and feelings and sensibilities in them that have not been a part of our society.

RW: Is there a bridge practice that you teach, to help people to get to this information?

SN: Yes, I teach a type of energetic hugging. Most people feel that a hug is just a gesture, but what I teach is that hugging can be quite healing. Hugging can restore balance. Hugging can be orgasmic. Hugging has many different aspects to it; once they are learned, then the hug can become a very powerful tool within our communities that can help everyone to stay balanced. So one of the first things I do is demonstrate a hug, then I show people how to hug, and form hugging circles so that they get to hug all of the people that are present in the room, and feel the healing power of that.

Most of the difficulty that the populace has in accepting these ideas is that they need to have an experience that allows them, on an individual basis, to feel the impact and feel the importance of what is being introduced. The importance of it is that they need to feel it and actually have it as a visceral experience within their own bodies. The moment that a person has a visceral experience at that level, you are no longer talking to them about something that they have to believe. You are now communicating with them about something they have actually experienced, and they know it to be real.

Introducing people to an awareness of the energetic world immediately changes them. Immediately they become hungry to know more about what they've just experienced. This opens the doorway for you to be able to communicate and share with them more and more complex ways of moving and being in the world from an energetic standpoint.

My experience is that consciousness is always reaching to expand itself. But we have been living in a world that has minimized the opportunity for an individual to come in contact with anything that is expanding. My work is to come in, introduce something that creates a level of expansion, which then immediately triggers the consciousness to want more of itself.

RW: What is it about the culture as it is now that cultivates men who lack the sensitivity and attention you are teaching?

SN: There are a number of conditions, and some of them are far beyond the awareness and consciousness of the mind at this point to even be able to let in. Part of it has to do with the fact that there are actually energies and beings present on the planet that thrive in a state of fear and confusion.

So much of the tone has been set on the planet, if you pay attention to your news, everything basically coming through mass communication is fear based. This fear is from and for those beings that are here and thrive on fear. But as a result of this, it is turning the planet-- as far as the people that thrive on love-- making it more and more difficult for them to be able to survive here in any kind of balanced and healthy way.

So it is very important for men to start to really utilize various aspects of their spiritual nature to be able to discern the quality of the different ideas and the different concepts that they allow themselves to take into their being and give a home to. Like now, they are basically out there, and they have been very heavily indoctrinated away from what is natural by the media. If you look at the movies, there are movies that basically show a man just violently taking a woman. They show a man making love and it's something that lasts about two, three minutes. So, if you ask women, this is how long the sexual act lasts now or is expected to last. I hear this all over the world.

If you couple that with a total media bombardment that makes men more and more insensitive, he ends up not knowing which way is home. So he ends up trying to take all this insanity and construct a map for how he's going to live. The reality is that he is totally confused.

In my workshops I talk a lot about men needing to refrain from being duped into sitting before TV's and newspapers and being told what is real in the world. He needs to make sure that he doesn't lose touch with the streets, with what he can touch and feel himself. He needs to go out and through his own experience come to know what is real and not real. Otherwise, he's just like a leaf blowing in the wind with absolutely no direction. And this does not serve him. It does not serve any woman he would be around. It does not serve society. It does not serve the planet for a man to be here with no direction and no purpose. No understanding of how the energy coming through him is to be used as a gift to the community he is in. If he does not have a connection with that aspect of his depth, he is dangerous to whatever degree he is lacking.

RW: How do you see this moving within the next several years? What is your vision for it?

SN: Well, some of it will be dictated by what happens on our planet. This planet is going through a major transition right now. It's pretty much up for grabs in that anytime there is a potential for enlightenment, there's an equally intense potential for regression, for endarkenment. So it's really going to be sort of nip and tuck as far as how quickly consciousness is going to be raised on the planet to offset things going toward endarkenment.

But I also feel that in this process or in that transition, the work that I'm doing and the work that others are doing is actually being dictated by this need for a shift. So my work is accelerating. I'm doing more workshops and mentoring more men as fast as I can, duplicating myself. And as fast as I can, I am helping to bring more and more health and wholeness to more women on the planet.

RW: And I thank you for that.

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